Attitude.
When my last company and I parted ways, there was no acrimony or any problems, I am still in contact with my old boss and the owners. But still walking away from what you'd think of as a "secure" job and into the harsh light of not being sure what comes next , I admit, was a bit daunting.
Still, on the way home that day (a nice 35 minute drive) I remember thinking, "FREE AT LAST, FREE AT LAST, THANK GOD IN HEAVEN, I'M FREE AT LAST!"
The news we've been hammered with over the last few months, brought this memory to mind. We see more and more people being downsized, retirees whose 401Ks are now barely 201Ks and need to supplement their income, growing ranks of people dissatisfied with the corporate life style. As more members of the baby boomer generation approach "retirement age" it is time to really think about starting over at 50.
You see I had been operating as a Chicken Entrepreneur... I wanted to start my own business, I was already working part time in my own business, I was tired of making other people richer but really afraid to take that first step. Well with the first step taken for me, I took charge of my future with both hands and launched my business.
I've been in some very high stress jobs in my career but launching a business carries more responsibility, more stress and requires more work than any "job" I've ever had. Although it isn't easy the experience has been incredible. The people I've met and worked with have all been great. Now, after the last 9 months, I really don't think I could ever go back to being an employee. I set my own schedule, typically 10-12 hours long, with the work week running 7-9 days in length. So yes I've worked harder these last 9 months than ever before, I'm having more fun and loving every minute of it. How many of you can say the same thing?
Another thing to keep in mind, and a trap that is easy to fall into is getting clients and working as a consultant. Clients often pay the bills but, they take a lot of time. What I wound up doing was creating a JOB for myself. The money was good but it wasn't a business.
Keep your eye on the ball and reach for your goals.